My Parents oficially hate me i dont know what to do i just wanna cry omg?

Its been a while since my parents have really talked to me, this morning when i woke up to get breakfast my mom and dad called me into the living room sat me down and gave me the most horrible news ever if you read my last question i had some spending issues with my dads credit card back to the point my mother had told me that she wants my brother and I to spend a month in Clearwater Kansas with my aunt and her daughter to see how hard some people have it because they say i take everything for granted I said there's no way on earth i would ever go to Kansas so we were yelling back and forth at each other and trust me my dad is really scary when hes mad his face was legit red and he jolted back at me saying that i was going i was so mad i ran upstairs to my room and started crying i don't know what to do im so scared the only places ive ever been are New York Hawaii Jamaica Australia and Italy my friend Monica told me Kansas is all farm and people wear like hill billy clothes and live in tiny homes and wear old navy there's like no malls or designer stores they eat roadkill and its not sunny like Beverly Hills Im so scared I know its a lose lose situation for me I talked to my brother and hes just as mad as i am why are my parents doing this to me why couldn't they just ground me or take away my phone im just experiencing so many mixed emotions right now im not a bad person i just made a few mistakes nobody's perfect can anyone give me any advice is Kansas as bad as everyone says my brother told me they already bought the plane tickets Im thinking about running off to palm springs to stay with my grandma oh my gosh i don't know :/....